The Disguise of Certainty

Don't ever allow your certainty to inhibit the postulation of an ideal reality.

- BMA

Some people continue to have the same problems, because they cannot accept having something better. Having something better is beyond their level of acceptance. This means they have framed their reality in such a way as to truly believe that it is not possible for things to get better than they are freely accepting right now. They have associated their undesirable reality as "normal". Their willingness to only accept this reality is due to the certainty of its ownership (no risk), and the use of it as an excuse for their emotional instability (justification).